 |
More
Free Content Here 
Health
Articles With Self-Help Titles
Self
Help Books
by Dr. Shoshanna
|
|
3
Communication Pitfalls to Avoid What
are the secrets of effective
communication? How do we truly get
what we want while also giving our
partners what they need? Let's look at
the top three communication problems
that most couples have -- and see how
they can be solved right here. Sometimes
we communicate solely for the purpose
of getting what we want, when we want
it, whether the other person is able
to give it or not. We sulk, pout,
threaten, cajole or do whatever we can
to make the other person feel bad.
This kind of communication, however
temporarily effective it may be, has a
terrible effect on the long-term
health of any relationship. Give it
up. Respect what the other person has
to offer. If they cannot give what you
want to you, see if you can give it to
yourself. Needless
to say, this is one of the most
dangerous kinds of communication, one
that destroys many relationships.
Lies, exaggerations, games and general
deceptions all cause confusion and
pain. They shake the very foundation
of the relationship and eventually
cause a deep breach in trust. Be
conscious of the danger of this and
stop it before it starts. If this is
something that sounds familiar to you,
address it in your own behavior first.
When you are honest and forthright,
you will no longer be willing to
accept deceit from others. You will
have integrity in your relationships,
and a sharp eye. Double messages -- saying one thing and doing another -- are a very prevalent form of deceit. This can also take the form of promising something, either with actions or words, and not delivering. Double messages cause a great deal of confusion. Always pay attention to a person's actions. They are more aligned with the truth than their words. If their words contradict what they're doing, ignore what is being said. Understand that the person is conflicted and split within themselves, and don't allow them to make you feel that way as well. Discover more about the surprising truths about love that will save your relationship, by working with the unique program in Dr. Shoshanna’s new e-book Save Your Relationship (21 Basic Laws of Successful Relationships). http://www.truthaboutlove.com
|
WEBMASTERS
Free Content With Publication Rights For Your Website. Dr. Brenda Shoshanna's self-help titles / health articles are available for your use. These free health articles are used by many successful webmasters, who provide these expert articles as free content for there visitors.
All You Must Do Is:
1. Include The Right Tag.
Click Here To Learn How To Do That.
2. Contact US with the URL where the article is published.
3. That's It!